I'm not well versed on the Love Languages, but I read a book about it a few years ago and took a quiz. The results were fascinating! Here's a link for you if you want to take an assessment yourself. I am a quality time kind of person--WAY quality time. My second is words of affirmation. I am not a gift person at all. Stuff just doesn't mean a lot to me.
When the Warden took this assessment a few years ago, he was an acts of service person. I can't remember what his second was, but I think it was physical touch. These two rank in the middle for me.
Anyway, it was an interesting assessment and spoke volumes about how we communicate and can improve in our communication with each other.
In my mind, there should be another love language, and I think both the Warden and I would agree on this one and it would rank the highest for both of us. That would be humor.
The people I love the most and feel connected to the most are those that are upbeat and happy. Maybe that's the same for all of us. I don't do serious very well.
So, what do you think? Is everyone else the same way? Would you rather meet up with someone who makes you smile and laugh, or would you rather have quality time or some kind of service done for you in order to feel loved?